The urge to change, and the desire to stay the same is the eternal paradox. We want the gifts that come with an expansion of mind , body and soul, but the road between here and there feels unknown and treacherous. We see ourselves actually wearing the shoes that we want to wear, but we are afraid to take the steps into them. As a person whose life's mission has been to jump off the train before it hits the wall, I can tell you that yes, there are some parts that are really sc